Ideally, parents need to be 100 per cent sure that the person (or persons) required to take care of their kid in their absence is doing it out of natural affection and a sense of duty, rather than merely fulfilling an obligation. Thus, writing a will should be viewed as a window of opportunity to make the right choice and name the person who will protect your children. Before you put the person's name in the Will, it is advisable to have a serious discussion with him and take his consent for this immensely important role.
Another point that you need to think about deeply while choosing the guardian is his location. It is typical in today’s times for siblings or parents to stay in different towns or even states. In such cases, you should take into consideration whether it will be feasible for the kids to relocate, as this could have an impact on their schooling. You should also take into account the distance at which the guardian lives from other members of the family, and other important people in the kids' lives.
Most people are aware that in the absence of a will, the properties of the deceased need to be Court-administered for distribution to the legal heirs. Similarly, in cases where no family member is keen to take up custody of a minor kid in the absence of their parents, the Court may have to intervene to identify the guardian, keeping in mind the best interest of the child. To avoid such a situation, it is prudent to have your decision documented in your will.
Both the parents should completely agree on the choice of guardian so that the same name is included in both their wills. This will help to avoid unnecessary problems later. It is also prudent to think and name an alternative guardian in the will, should the first named be incapable of taking up the responsibility at a later date for any reason. While most parents would immediately think of their own parents as the guardians for their children, it is advisable to consider their age and general health, and whether they will be able to handle the physical demands of growing children. Parents having more than one child should also consider whether the chosen guardian will be able to take care of all the kids.
Who will take care of the finances: In your absence, someone will be required to look after the children’s finances. Most financial plans today take into account the education, hobbies and career start-up needs of children while deciding how much life insurance the parents should buy. However, the insurance money, when realised also needs to be managed prudently so that the various education-related needs of the children are met.
The same personal guardian can be named as the financial guardian as well, or you can choose a different person. This decision should depend entirely on how comfortable the personal guardian is in dealing with financial matters. Even if you have the slightest doubt, think of a separate financial guardian.
Appoint a manager for properties: Another important consideration for parents is to appoint a trusted and competent manager for the detailed management of the immovable property that they will bequeath to the minor child. Real estate management is not easy even for seasoned investors. This issue becomes especially important in cases where the personal guardian is located in a different town or city and the child has to relocate.
You can use your will to nominate a long-term manager for the properties. You may even decide whether the properties need to be liquidated at certain life stages and the proceeds utilised for the child’s benefit.
The need for young parents to create a Will cannot be over emphasised. Those days are long gone when people visited their lawyer to write a will 10-15 years after retirement. Increased job stress, unhealthy lifestyles, uncertainties revolving around work and leisure-related travel, among other factors, should make a parent regard the will as a means to plan ahead and make sure that their kids are well taken care of in all circumstances. A will can help ensure that things will happen the way you want them to even if you are not around.
Points to remember when writing a Will
Nominate a trusted person to take care of your child in your absence
More than one person may have to be nominated, in case you have more than one child
This person should have strong natural affection for the child and should look after your child out of a sense of duty
If the personal guardian is not financially savvy, you may have appoint a separate person as the guardian for financial affairs
A trusted and competent person may also have to be appointed as the manager of the properties that you will bequeath to your child
The writer is a Sebi-registered investor advisor